The Non-Travelling Backpacker

The Non-Travelling Backpacker

I’ve been in Australia for over 4 months and I cannot tell you how many times I’ve been asked where I’ve been and where I’m going. When I say nowhere and nowhere, people jump in with suggestions of where I have to go, saying I’d enjoy it,┬ábut to be honest, I’m not the travelling type.

Travel

I’ve never wanted to live out of a backpack, and I didn’t want to go to SE Asia after looking at the brochures. When I decided that I needed a change, Asia didn’t give me butterflies. Sydney did. The thought of starting a new life brought light back into my dull one. But not the thought of seeing all these different things.

I just wanted to create a new life.

I hate hostels. With a passion. I spent about a month in Jolly Swagman and I had never been so happy to leave. Sharing a room with 3 other people (not many compared to other hostels!) and having to share the kitchen with 50 other people stressed me out. I rarely slept, and I lived on pizza and takeaway because I couldn’t face cooking in that kitchen.

I’m not sure they have a name for what I am, but I’m a slow traveller if I’m a traveller. Like sloth-slow.

I’d rather create a new life, fully immerse myself in a new way of living, creating new routines. I don’t want to wake up and think “ok, now I’m going to jump on a plane to see Switzerland. Next week, I’ll be in Italy, the week after Hawaii.” I don’t like living fast, even though I’m one of the most impatient people you’ll meet.

The thing that triggered this post was a colleague saying that she was moving to Brisbane. She said that when I go travelling, I can stay with her. Which is really sweet, but it’s getting annoying that people aren’t listening to me when I say I don’t want to travel.

I know they mean well, but if someone says they don’t want to travel, please stop offering suggestions. It sounds like they’ve already made up their mind.

8 Comments

  1. 20/06/2018 / 6:14 pm

    I think it sounds lovely to want to immerse yourself in one location, and to do so too! I bet it does get frustrating with everyone assuming just because you’ve moved to a new location that you’re going to hop to the next but just do you and stay true to your passions and goals!

    Issy | MissIsGoode
    xx

    • tralisty
      Author
      23/06/2018 / 8:43 pm

      It was really frustrating, especially when people would shove ideas down your throat. I even booked a ticket to Melbourne because I felt pressured to travel. Luckily, it wasn’t a lot of money wasted, but I wish I’d stuck to my guns!

      N xo

  2. babalandia@hotmail.com
    11/07/2017 / 8:52 pm

    Totally agree! I rather spend more time in few places than rush around to get to know everything. I’m also want to live to the fullest, maybe one day I go to Australia.

    • naomiproudman@hotmail.co.uk
      12/07/2017 / 4:20 am

      Australia is beautiful, the life here is just something you can’t get anywhere else. If your heart truly wants to travel, then go. It’ll be an amazing experience.

  3. babalandia@hotmail.com
    11/07/2017 / 8:52 pm

    Totally agree! I rather spend more time in few places than rush around to get to know everything. I’m also want to live to the fullest, maybe one day I go to Australia.

    • naomiproudman@hotmail.co.uk
      12/07/2017 / 4:20 am

      Australia is beautiful, the life here is just something you can’t get anywhere else. If your heart truly wants to travel, then go. It’ll be an amazing experience.

  4. babalandia@hotmail.com
    11/07/2017 / 8:52 pm

    Totally agree! I rather spend more time in few places than rush around to get to know everything. I’m also want to live to the fullest, maybe one day I go to Australia.

    • naomiproudman@hotmail.co.uk
      12/07/2017 / 4:20 am

      Australia is beautiful, the life here is just something you can’t get anywhere else. If your heart truly wants to travel, then go. It’ll be an amazing experience.

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